Wednesday, January 23, 2019

Some Time in the Coachella Valley, Our Old Stomping Ground

Hello again, welcome back. Our last chapter concluded on Sunday, December 30th, when we arrived in Cathedral City, California, in the Coachella Valley, after three months in our “home” of Pahrump, Nevada. We joined up with our good friends and frequent traveling companions, Peggy and Vernon Bullock. On Monday, December 31st, New Years Eve, we spent most of the day at home. We did go out and do a Walmart run in the afternoon, then spent New Year's Eve with the Bullock's. We did some steaks on the BBQ and watched the East coast network TV shows and celebrated New Year's at 9:00 California time. The Bullock's went home and we watched a little more TV before going to bed and sleeping in the new year.

January 1st, 2019, Happy New Year! We had a quiet New Years at home. We got a few chores done and just relaxed for the most part. We had cocktails with the Bullock's and then Peggy served dinner. We had pork loin with mashed potatoes and sauerkraut. Peggy said it was a German dish that was supposed to be good luck if you had it on New Year's day. We talked for a while and went back to our place about 8:00, then watched TV and went to bed. Wednesday we left the coach about 12:30, along with Peggy and Vernon, and drove to Indio to meet our friends Ray and Suzi Babcock for lunch. Ray likes the China Bistro in Indio and is always willing to drive over a hundred miles from their house in Murrietta just for lunch. We had a great lunch and sat and talked until about 3:00, after which the Babcock's drove over to the RV park and met us all at the Bullock's for desert. Peggy had made a lemon pie and we all had a piece. The Babcocks then headed home. We had cocktails with the Bullock's at 5:00, but no dinner since we had such a late lunch. We went out about 7:00 and drove to the Starbucks in Cathedral City for a geocaching event.  There were several old caching friends there, as well as several people we had not met before.  We had a good time and stayed for about an hour.  We then went back to the coach and watched some TV before going to bed.

Thursday, January 3rd, we stayed home for most of the day. About 4:30 the four of us left and drove over to Palm Desert to the Cactus Jack's Bar and Grill. Regular readers will know that when we still had the house in Indio, Cactus Jack's was our hang out place. The Indio location has been closed, but the owner, George, opened a new store in Palm Desert. We had a wonderful meal and saw a couple of old Coachella Valley friends. The food at CJ's is not inexpensive, but it is very good. After dinner we drove home and just relaxed the rest of the day. Friday I left the coach about 9:30 and headed to Rancho Mirage to visit the dermatologist. Since I had my melanoma scare in 2009 I have gone in every year for a skin check. The doctor looked me over, gave me my usual shower with liquid nitrogen to get rid of the small basal cell skin cancers, and one new mole, and sent me on my way. Jackie and Peggy had gone out about 10:30 to do some shopping and errands and have lunch. About 11:30 Vernon and I left and went to Boy's in Cathedral City, just a mile or so up the road, for lunch. I used to go there all the time when I worked in Cathedral City and they have the best pastrami sandwich anywhere. After lunch we went back to the RV park and I spent the rest of the afternoon doing some chores and relaxing. Peggy and Jackie got back around 3:00 and we had cocktails with the Bullock's at 5:00. Peggy then served dinner, some lemon picatta chicken with linguine . It was very good and we all enjoyed it. After dinner we talked and visited until about 8:30 when we went back to our coach. We watched a little TV and went to bed.

Saturday, January 5th, our last day in Cathedral City. We mostly stayed home, doing some chores and getting stuff put away in preparation for our travel to Indio tomorrow morning. We did go out to the grocery store in the afternoon. We had cocktails with Peggy and Vernon and then Jackie served a nice Mexican dinner, chili relleno casserole, rice and beans. We had a great dinner, talked for a while and then, after the Bullock's left, watched some TV before bed.

Sunday, January 6th, we were up EARLY so we could get packed up and on the road by 8:00 a.m. We don't normally travel that way, but today we are only going 20 miles across the valley to the Indio Fairgrounds and the FMCA Western Area Rally. The actual rally starts on Wednesday, but we are parking with one of our Chapters, the Overland Trailblazers, and there are a lot of activities scheduled with the group for today. The first four days on the fairgrounds is sort of an onsite pre-rally. We did get out right at 8:00, got into the fairgrounds by 8:30 and were finally parked and getting set up by 9:30. We got the basic set up done and then at 11:00 we traveled, with many of the chapter members, to the Empire Polo Grounds just a mile southwest of the fairgrounds, for the opening day of the winter polo season in Indio. Some of the Chapter members had set it up so we could all go as a group into the grounds and watch the day's matches. Although Jackie had been to the polo grounds for matches many years ago, I have never been to a match and never even been on the grounds here in Indio. The venue is gorgeous, as you would expect a “money sport” like polo to have. We were at a nice table, under shade, with servers to bring food and drinks. Everything was expensive, but it was still fun with lots of people, many of them dressed for the occasion. We had lunch and a cocktail and watched one full match. Unfortunately, during the match we watched a horse and rider go down and the horse never got back up. Never heard exactly what the issue was, but I suspect the horse was put down. Too bad, although it is a surprisingly rough sport. We didn't stay for the second match because it was getting pretty cold and windy.

We drove back to the fairgrounds and I finished getting everything set up around the coach. About 4:30 I went over to one of the buildings on the grounds to get my sound equipment set up for tonight's meet and greet dinner with the Trailblazers Chapter. I have become the Chapter's sound and music guy. About 5:00 we went over for the dinner and there were probably a hundred people in attendance. This is a large and active Chapter. We had a nice dinner of flank steak and sides, all provided by the Chapter. The party went on until about 8:00, after which we went back to the coach and relaxed for the rest of the night.

Monday, January 7th, we went out about 11:30 and stopped at In-N-Out for lunch. After lunch we did a grocery run at the WinCo store. We like the lunch meats that we can get at WinCo. We then went back to the coach and about 1:45 the mobile oil change guy arrived at the coach. The next two hours we hung around the coach while he did the annual oil and lube service on the coach. We used to get this work done every year while on the road, usually at a truck oil change company somewhere. About four years ago I started using this same mobile guy who comes to the Indio rally every year and it has been a lot more convenient. After the oil change was done we relaxed for a while and then around 4:30 we went over to the same room we were in last night for another Overland Trailblazers event. Tonight was a heavy hors d'vouers night and Jackie made a Mexican corn and cheese dip. There was lots of food and everyone had a good time. I did about an hour of karaoke after dinner and we actually had a couple of people come up and do a couple songs each. This was a big change from last year when none of the members seemed to be the least bit interested. By 7:30 we were back in the coach and relaxed for the rest of the night.

Tuesday, January 8th, Jackie and Peggy left about 10:30 to go to a ladies luncheon with our group. They went to the Shields Date Garden restaurant here in Indio. I stayed home, did some chores and just relaxed. They got back about 1:30 and we both did a few chores. Around 2:30 I went down to the concrete slab our group uses as a gathering place on the fairgrounds and set up the sound equipment. Today was just to provide sound services for the annual meeting of the Chapter and then music for the pizza party afterwards. The meeting started around 3:30 and went on for about 45 minutes. There was a break and then a little after 4:00 they brought in the Caesar salad and pizza, both from Costco, and served a light dinner for the group. I just played a bunch of 60's music that everyone seemed to like. After the party was winding down I packed up the gear since I didn't want to leave it unattended outside overnight. We had cocktails with the Bullock's and were back in our own coach relaxing a little after 7:00. We watched some TV and went to bed.

Wednesday, January 9th, we didn't have anything special to do in the morning. About 1:00 we went down to the main building at the fairgrounds for the Chapter Fair. This is something they do at rallies where the provide tables for all the various chapter to set up informational booths so they can try to recruit new members. I wasn't associated with any single booth as far as responsibility, so I just wandered around and helped a little at several of the booths for chapters that we belong to. We left around 2:30 and went back to the coach. After a brief break I went down to the slab to set up the sound equipment for tonight's event with the Trailblazers. One of the main things the Chapter does at each Western Area Rally is a big BBQ and potluck on Wednesday night of the rally. They will have up to 150 people at the BBQ and it is a big recruiting tool, it's how they hooked us. The BBQ started at 4:00 and after announcements I started playing some music. The BBQ was ribs and chicken and the potluck part was all the side dishes. There was plenty of food and everyone had a good time. By the time dark came on the party ended, I packed up the sound equipment and went back to the coach. We spent the rest of the evening with the TV.

Thursday, January 10th. Although the rally officially started yesterday, there were no vendors or seminars until this morning. I was out of the coach about 9:00 for a meeting with the Board of the Trailblazers Chapter regarding elections. I am a member of the nominating committee and we needed to talk about how to get people to step up into leadership positions. After that meeting Jackie and I went over to the auditorium for the Full Timers Chapter seminar on full time RVing. I was one of the presenters for the seminar, which the Chapter does at all the FMCA International conventions, as well as at the Western Area rally. The seminar went well, we had a lot of interest and a lot of questions and comments. After the seminar we and the Bullocks drove off the grounds and met with Ray and Suzi Babcock for lunch at an Indio Chinese restaurant near the fairgrounds. They had driven in for the day again, this time to go through the vendors at the rally. They used to come to the rally like the rest of us, but the last few years they have decided they didn't like the grounds, so they no longer come with their coach. We had a nice visit and a great lunch.

After lunch we went back to the fairgrounds and relaxed for a while. About 3:30 we went down to the area of the slab, where our Chapter has been meeting, to line up on the street for the parade. Regular readers may remember that the Western Area rally always has a parade where the various chapters at the rally build floats and make costumes to reflect the theme of the year, which this year was “Once upon a Time.” There were some really great floats and costumes, as always, and everyone was really enjoying the event. Unfortunately, after the parade was over Jackie was helping Peggy fold up her chairs and tripped over a traffic cone nearby. She fell over backwards and hit her head on the concrete. I was not right there, I had taken our chairs over a few hundred yards when it happened. I found out about the accident and went over to her. She had a knot on the back of her head about the size of a half grapefruit, but there was no bleeding, it had not broken the skin other than a slight abrasion. She had not lost consciousness and showed no other signs of concussion, but I was very worried about the huge hematoma on her head. I got the car and then drove her to the emerg
ency room at JFK Hospital here in Indio. It was a typical noisy, busy smelly ER, but they did take her right in. She was in treatment for a couple of hours, they did the vitals and some cognitive tests, and also sent her for an CT of the head. They found no fracture, no subdural bleeding, no sigh of concussion. They gave her a tetanus shot and we headed home, getting back around 8:00. She had a bit of a headache, but was otherwise OK, just a little scared by what could have been. We watched some TV and went to bed.

Friday, January 11th, Jackie had a good night, slept well, and when she woke up the knot was greatly diminished in size, now just a small bump. I had woke up several times during the night and heard her snoring, so I knew that she was OK. I think she made it through this event without any serious injury. We had a pretty quiet day today with very few commitments with regard to the rally. After lunch we walked over to the vendor area and spent a couple of hours checking out the merchandise. We ended up buying nothing. After the vendors we went back to the coach and relaxed for a while and then around 5:00 we went over to one of the buildings on the fairgrounds for a social with the Military Veterans Chapter. The turnout was a bit disappointing, only about a dozen people. This is a very large chapter with close to a thousand members nationwide. As the Vice President of the Chapter I felt obligated to go and we had a good time talking to the few people that were there. After the social we walked over to the auditorium for the evening entertainment. Tonight was a stand up comedian named Ken Kaz. It is rare to have comedians at rallies, usually it is music, but the National President of FMCA discovered this guy at some non-RV related event and thought he was really good and since then he has done several FMCA events. He put on an hour long show and was VERY good. Funny, topical, clean and really entertaining. I would look for him playing anywhere and go if I could. After the show we went back to the coach and relaxed with the TV until bedtime.

Saturday, January 12th, the last full day of the rally. We had no commitments today, and just as well as it was raining when we got up. Not too hard, but enough to be cold and wet. The rain finally let up around noon when we left the fairgrounds and went to La Casita, one of our favorite Mexican places in the Desert, for lunch. Peggy and Vernon met us there and we had a nice lunch. After lunch we went to Walmart and Costco for some supplies, then went back to the coach. We were supposed to have a final happy hour with the Trailblazers at 4:30, but the weather was threatening rain again, so it was canceled. Instead we just had cocktails with the Bullocks. They went home around 7:00 and we watched TV until bedtime.

Sunday, January 13th, moving day. A number of people had left the fairgrounds yesterday and they started pouring out this morning around 7:00. By the time we left at 10:30 it was half empty. We got on the freeway and headed east, going 120 miles to Quartzsite, Arizona. It was an uneventful drive and we arrived in Quartzsite about 2:00 local time, since we changed time zones and lost an hour. We quickly got settled into our spot and spent a couple hours getting set up for our eight day stay here. Peggy and Vernon are parked right next to us again and we had cocktails together at happy hour. We didn't do any dinner as we all had lunch late. After they left we watched some TV and went to bed.

Monday, January 14th, we had a stay at home day. The laundry for the RV park was right across from our coach, so we did a load of laundry to tide us over until we get to Yuma next week. We spent the day doing some chores and generally relaxing. Jackie still has a lot of pain on the back of her head from her fall, so she didn't feel like doing much. About 1:00 it started raining and we had light rain for the rest of the day and evening. We had happy hour with the Bullocks and then did some burgers on the BBQ. The rain was very light, so it didn't interfere with our BBQing. We had a nice dinner with the four of us and then watched some TV and the girls played cards. They went home around 7:30 and we watched TV until bedtime. Tuesday was a stay at home day. It rained all night long and was still raining in the morning. The rain finally cleared late in the afternoon. I made a big pot of chili for dinner for the four of us and Peggy made some cornbread. We had cocktails and then dinner, then after the Bullock's went home we watched some TV.

Wednesday, January 16th, we woke up to clear skies, yea! The four of us left the RV park about 11:30 and drove the 20 miles back west to Blythe, California to go to Garcia's restaurant for lunch. It is a little, hole in the wall Mexican place that has great food. After lunch we stopped at a couple of stores, then drove back to Quartzsite. We then walked to the “Pow Wow” which is an annual gem and mineral show which is held in an event area located right behind the RV park in which we are staying. Although we don't collect rocks, they also have some nice jewelry and other items and it fun to just walk around for a bit. After walking around the rock show we went back to the coach, then at 5:30 we had happy hour with the Bullocks. We didn't have any dinner because of the big lunch. After the Bullocks went home we relaxed with the TV until bedtime.

Thursday, January 18th, my brother Ken and his wife Susan drove up for the day from their home in Goodyear, Arizona. Goodyear is on the far west end of the Phoenix metro area and it is a straight shot on Interstate 10 to Quartzsite, about a ninety minute drive. We and the Bullocks met them for lunch at Silly Al's pizza restaurant here in Quartzsite. We had a great lunch with lots of leftovers and after lunch we drove back to our coach and sat and talked for a couple of hours. Ken had worked for the City of Avondale, also on the west side of Phoenix, as a Code Enforcement officer, but recently retired and went to work as a flight instructor at a flying school in Goodyear. He and Susan are planning to do the same thing as we are in about five years. They seem to have their stuff together and a good plan. Ken and Susan left around 5:00, after which we had cocktails with the Bullocks and then went back to our coach and watched TV until it was time for bed.

Friday, January 19th, we left the coach about 11:00 and went to Tyson Wells, the big swap meet/market in town. We spent a couple of hours walking around, bought a few little RV related things and enjoyed the nice weather. We had lunch there and were finished shopping around 2:30 or so. We went back to the coach and relaxed for a while, then about 4:15 we left again, with the Bullock's, and drove over to the “big tent” area for a customer appreciation party put on every year by Redlands Truck and RV. We felt that we deserved to come because we had some work done by them a couple years ago, however, the party is free and open to anyone who knows about it. Apparently everyone in town knew about it. There were several hundred people there, an open bar and some great BBQ for dinner. By 7:30 the party was over and we went back to the coach and relaxed the rest of the night.

Saturday, January 20th, we left the coach with the Bullock's about 10:30 and drove over to the big tent for the opening day of the Quartzsite RV Show. The tent is up for about two weeks every January and is about a quarter mile long and a hundred yards wide. There are several hundred RV related (mostly) vendors inside, plus another couple dozen outside around the tent. Thousands of people come through the tent every day and I think most of them were there this morning. We simply could not find a parking space, so we gave up and went to breakfast/lunch at one of the local cafes, Mountain Quail. After lunch we went back to the RV park and rested for a bit. Around 2:00 we made another try for the tent and found a parking space, so we spent a couple hours going through the vendors. I bought some supplies, water filters, fuel filters for the coach, and we picked up a bunch of stuff from various RV parks that had booths. By a little after four we were done and went back to the RV park. We had cocktails with the Bullock's at 5:30 and later did some lamb and steak on the BBQ. Actually, everyone but me had lamb, I had a nice cow. We talked for a bit, then went back to our coach, watched some TV and went to bed.

Sunday, January 21st, our last full day in Quartzsite. We stayed home for the day, doing some chores and getting ready for travel tomorrow. We had cocktails with the Bullocks at 5:00 and were joined by some friends who arrived in the park today, Ernie and Andie. They are old friends of the Bullocks who we see almost every year when our paths cross. We first met them in 2011, a couple years after we met Peggy and Vernon, at a boondocking campout here in Quartzsite with a bunch of the Bullock's RVing friends. After cocktails we went back to our coach, had some dinner and watched TV until bedtime. Monday was another travel day. We were packed up and on the road around 10:00, heading south from Quartzsite to Yuma, Arizona, a trip of about 80 miles. We arrived at the Carefree Village RV Resort around noon and quickly got set up and moved in. We are parked right across the street from Peggy and Vernon and will be joined in a couple of weeks by the Babcock's and McKay's. We have all been coming to Carefree Village in the winter for the last three years. It is a nice park with very big spaces. We finished getting set up, then had cocktails with Peggy and Vernon about 6:00 and did some pork chops on the BBQ for dinner. The Bullock's left around 8:00 and we watched some TV before going to bed.

Our arrival here in Yuma for a month long stay marks a good point to close out this episode and get it published. Until next time, remember the words of the old radio talk show host, Bernie Meltzer. “A true friend is someone who thinks that you are a good egg even though he knows that you are slightly cracked.” See ya soon.